Is your gift worthless?

When Japanese people give a gift or a present, they often say "tsumaranai monodesuga" 

The literal meaning of this term is that this gift is worthless but I give it to you anyway. 

Is it really worthless? Actually it is not. 

You might wonder why they tell a lie when they give a gift. 

This is one of the indirect expressions in Japanese.  

The true meaning is likely  the following. 

"I am afraid that you won't like it, but I dare to give it to you  since I can't find any other way to express my gratitude"

This is a very useful expression. 

If you think the gift is sucks, it's okay because they say the same thing. 

On the contrary,  the gift is nice, you will be happy.  

This gesture may protect both the giver and receiver from any embarrassment, and considers everyone's feelings. 

However, Japanese people sometimes become too polite in this situation.  

Valentine's day

Valentine's day. 

As you might know, Valentine's day is the special event when girls give chocolates gifts to boys. 

Actually, there are two kinds of chocolate gifts in Japan. 

One is Giri chocolate, the other is Honmei chocolate. 

Giri chocolate is the chocolate gift to show your friendship or thanks. For example, there is a custom that a women employee  gives her boss a chocolate gift with her gratitude. 

 On the other hand, Honmei chocolate gift is totally different.  Honmei chocolate is the gift that a girl gives to the boy that she loves. 

After she gives Honmei chocolate to the boy, she will sometimes ask him to go out with her. 

For this reason, especially in school, girls often tell the boy which type of chocolate gift it is so that he doesn't misunderstand. 

However you should pay attention when you are given a chocolate gift even though that is Giri chocolate because someone might be too shy to say that it is Honmei chocolate.  

Manekineko

This cat doll is displayed on my room.

The cat doll is called Manekineko in Japan.  It is said that Manekineko can bring fortune.  This Manekineko  is gold which means it brings money. 

Although I bought  a lottery tickets for 30 dollars last month, my cat hasn't brought any money yet.